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At one point or the other, we enter a relationship then we break up with the other person for reasons best known to you or the other party. Sometimes it could be that he cheated on you or you just lost the spark that was there in the beginning.

According to Kenyan Girls

When you break up with your ex, according to the society, both of you are expected to go your own way and you’re not expected to ever be involved romantically again. 

Well, once you part your ways due to the differences you had, there’s no reason to run back and collect your trash is there? No.

When you’re in that sort of situation, you will find yourself with him in the bed once again, for “old time’s sake” before parting ways totally and when this happens, it’s often a subject of shame and slander amongst society because according to “norms” having sex with your ex is very wrong.

If you told any of your friends that you had gotten back together with Mwangi for a shag, they’d look at you and question your mental state. They’d even think you were high on some drugs.

Why Kenyan Girls think it is OK

However, according to the Archives of Sexual Behavior journal, having sex with your ex will not impact or alter the fact that you want to move on and neither will it ruin your emotional balance, even if Kama wants to get back with you and you don’t.

They analyzed the daily experiences of over 100 people who had recently experienced a breakup, then followed up with them two months later to find out whether or not they had had physical contact with their ex, how they felt the following day if they ended up sleeping together. How emotionally attached they still were.In another experiment, 372 people were asked to report their attempts at having sex with an ex, as well as their levels of emotional attachment.

In both experiments, it was found that, surprisingly, engaging in physical intimacy left people feeling more positive in everyday life and did not seem to hinder their ability to move on from the relationship they had with their exes for many Kenyan Girls.

So, ladies, the next time Oti comes around asking you for a hook-up, think about it. It won’t get you guys back together, but it will help with the hormones!


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