These are funny Kenyan phrases mostly used in jest but can be quite manipulative. Imagine the time you just wanted to have fun but got afraid because people will call you ratchet.
Or that time you wanted to buy a Subaru but was scared because people would refer to you as a Fuck boy.
Or even the things you do for your boyfriend so that you can be more wife material. Think about it… really think. Isn’t that manipulation?